Munakahat Interview.

16 August 2009
My agama class had an outdoor outing today.We had to find people n interview them about their comments/thoughts about marriage @ Pasir Ris Interchange. After looking around finding suitable targets, i found one.Cik Syarifah was a widow for 2 yrs.She had a very happy matchmaked marriage.So she gave her views on marriage...really good advices.Some of the advices were also from my ustazah.

1. First,we must really choose our partners [husband/wife] carefully.Dun go for money or looks tapi perangai menghampakan.Look for qualities such as financial stability,keimanan,good behaviour,his/her speech and heart.Make sure he/she is sincere and not making use of u.
2. We must try nurture our relationship n aim insya allah sampai pernikahan.Our niat mesti kene betul.Niat untuk kahwin.Dun treat the relationship as a way of hurting the other party.
3. Must not terlalu rapat during courtship..Jaga batasan sebagai seorang muslim/muslimah.And jangan terlalu spend time sangat wit each other.Coz lepas kahwin je,da jelak..da tak tau nak cakap ape. So bear that in mind.
4. Both sides [the girl n the guy] should really give their blessings.If not,ur marriage will have problems.So people,be careful..Jangan syok sgt bercinta sampai hati mak or bapak terluka kalau they tak berkenan ngan pilihan awak tu.Kalau they tak suka,ask why.Usually, orang tua lebih berpengalaman.Dengar cakap dorang.Pakai akal,not nafsu =)
5. We must not splurge our wedding and be sederhana.coz nanti tk berkat.Lebih afdal tak berlebihan.The money can be used for other purposes, etc honeymoon.The most important thing was our marriage is a happy n long lasting.We shuld not follow people blindly.Spend within our means n dun compete wit others..We can never win.Or shuld i say, dun show off.hehe.
6. Before marriage,we must be ready for marriage life..A totally new life.Most people didnt think bout what happen after marriage.They only think bout courtships..So be ready mentally and financially.Read books bout marriage life.Improve urself to be a better person.Pertingkat kan ibadah.And most importantly,dun be unfaifthful!

We thanked Cik Syarifah for her advices...really meaningful.

After that we went to Century Square.Ustazah gave us $10 each =) Macam sayang nah nak pakai...but pakai je lah.So we have our lunch.While we was waiting for my guy classmate to finish eating, I saw my neighbour.The guy who broke my heart.He was waiting for his wife.Its been 8 months since I last saw him.Sigh..He didnt notice me..A bit sad when i saw him..welz,tabah kan hati =)

ok,dats all today...have a good sunday peeps!